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		<title>Personal Social Goals Experiments &#8211; Steve&#8217;sLab &#8211; New For Stevesgoal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 12:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As most of you might have realised by now, Stevesgoal is a personal development site. However, unlike other blogs that cover self improvement and personal social goal setting, I tend to avoid highly theoretical stuff,  spiritual concepts and ideas that tend to verge on the paranormal. I&#8217;m not saying this to put down other blogs [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dealing With Enemies &#8212; Is Revenge And Destroying Them The Best Way ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 23:07:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys, the fact is that we all come accross &#8220;enemies&#8221; at points. Sometimes we make them, sometimes they make themselves. Bear that in mind &#8211; we &#8220;make enemies&#8221;, in other words, right until the battle lines are drawn, you have a chance to make them a friend. One powerful method I have found, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Quick Surefire Way To Make More Friends&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/quick-surefire-way-to-make-more-friends.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 13:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heys guys,
I&#8217;ve been thinking about just what scenarios seem to help establish the best quality friendships. Now, most of us know the beginners tips that I&#8217;ve discussed before. The first one is focus on what the other person is saying and take your conversational cues from them instead of focusing on what you need to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Taking The First Step In Self Improvement</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/taking-the-first-step-in-self-improvement.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 20:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a tendancy when writing a blog (for me at least) to always focus on the future and advancing down my own journey of personal development and to leave the past behind. That also means that the first steps tend to get neglected as time goes on &#8211; yet, in terms of self improvement [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I abandoned my food diary&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/why-i-abandoned-my-food-diary.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 23:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For those of you that read Steve Pavlina&#8217;s blog, you will have seen that he did a one month trial of a very restrictive (in my opinion) diet. A short while before Steve began his &#8220;30 day&#8221; food trial I had begun a food trial of my own, attempting to determine how different foods affect [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to survive the Office Party</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/how-to-survive-the-office-party.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 22:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s that time of year again people &#8211; the time when we go to social functions with people we may or may not like but spend most of our week with &#8211; work colleagues. Yes the office party season is upon us, and after being to a few friends parties and hearing sob stories and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Can I Tell If Someone Doesn&#8217;t Like Me?</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/how-can-i-tell-if-someone-doesnt-like-me.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.stevesgoal.com/how-can-i-tell-if-someone-doesnt-like-me.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2007 15:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Mental Techniques]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a big one for a lot of people but is one of the few areas that I never had to work on &#8211; it always seemed to come naturally. Now, you are probably thinking I mean being able to tell who didn&#8217;t like me, but I don&#8217;t. Rather, I had a system that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Food Diary &#8211; Week 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 17:30:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I&#8217;ve been very careful about what I have eaten this week. Although I am not a vegetarian, nor do I want to become one, I have tried to eat a few vegetarian meals this week namely, mixed bean tacos and Aloo Palek. Now before people go crazy, I should point out that I make [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Negative Thinking: The shortcut to improving your life</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/negative-thinking-the-shortcut-to-improving-your-life.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.stevesgoal.com/negative-thinking-the-shortcut-to-improving-your-life.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are at all interested in self improvement you have probably got a list of life goals and shorter goals that you want to achieve. You have probably got deadlines and waypoints set as well as action plans. These are all great, and are really necessary if you are serious about changing your life. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Guest Writer John Lozervero explains how environment matters.</title>
		<link>http://www.stevesgoal.com/guest-writer-john-lozervero-explains-how-environment-matters.html</link>
		<comments>http://www.stevesgoal.com/guest-writer-john-lozervero-explains-how-environment-matters.html#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2007 18:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stevie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For this post I thought I would hand over to John Lozervo, marketing expert. He has a little bit of arrogance but his knowledge in the field of excellence is unparalled. This guy can turn around even the most dire business. Anyway, over to John.
I don&#8217;t usually do stuff for other people, but since I [...]]]></description>
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