Hello all, this is the first post at Steve’s blog, and I thought I should explain what its all about. How many of us would like to be more confident, more assertive, feel comfortable in ourselves. I used to be shy, and in some ways I still am, but I got sick of being scared of talking to new people, being unassertive, and scared of new experiences.

Unlike many of the self help books I have spent too much money on, I am going to focus on practical advice and methods not just theories and affirmations. ! I am really sick of advice that ends at join groups to make new friends, start off with small talk when meeting new people and the like. What groups should I join, who should I approach and who shouldn’t approach, what is small talk.

When I write I will give detailed topics for small talk, identifying bad groups of people that may seem nice, but ultimately will harm your social success and confidence, and how to avoide them. Detailed practical advice gained out in “the field” lol. We can all be more sucessful and popular if we try and grow out of our shyness.

I’ll tell you the things I know, improve on them, test them and discover the things I don’t know. I really feel confidence and self belief, as well as becoming less introvert is a great base to try so many things in life. An inability to deal with new social situations and the fear that it brings is a burden that I decieded I wasn’t willing to tolerate any longer, I hope you feel the same.

I think that’s enough for now, but I really want this blog to become the free guide to making friends, banishing fear, trying new experiences, enjoying life and growing in confidence. Like I said earlier, I feel these basic skills will help improve all sections of life, even those that arnt addressed directly here !

 

Weclome to Steve’s Goal (that’s social success ! )

 

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